The thought of making it big in an industry as glamorous as escorting is a magnet to escort newbies. You’ve all been there, dear escorts, am I right? Becoming a popular adult entertainer was your number one priority and you worked very hard to get to where you are now. But you’ve also had many bumps along the way, e.g. a lot of temptations which made life hard for a while. Alas, they made you the strong and successful companion you are, didn’t they?
Today’s article is dedicated to all of you who want to make their first sail into the escorting world as smooth as possible. So, buckle up and read our five tips on how to avoid many unnecessary problems along the way.
Use your money wisely
It’s sooo easy to give in to temptation when you start to earn, say, double the amount of money you made when you worked a much less attractive job. You will go to all those luxury shops you’ve been fantasizing about for so long and buy everything that catches your eye. You will want to eat at fancy restaurant or visit the most exclusive resorts abroad.
That’s completely fine. Pamper yourself now and then, it’s good for the brain. However, don’t do it every day or you will run out of money in a very short time. The most important thing to do is to be responsible. Also, ask yourself this question: “will I be an escort all my life?” If the answer is no, you better start saving money right after reading this post. It’s something will help you during those rainy days which are bound to happen to all of us. Alternatively, set yourself a goal, like, for instance, opening a business when you’re done escorting.
Stay true to yourself
Admit it, many of you end up forgetting who you are and becoming this completely different person than you once were. That’s because you have to play a different role for each date. Facing an identity crisis is a real problem.
What you can do to avoid this is to dedicate your free time to activities you love. Play with your pet if you have one, go out with your friends and watch a movie, go hiking, read a book, and everything else you like.
Don’t lose touch with your true self and everything will be ok, you’ll see 😊
Watch out for fake friends
A true friend is hard to find these days, especially in your line of work. Gossipy, mean, and double-faced people will put on their best show to lure you in and pretend to be there for you when you need them the most. Sadly, most often than not they will stab you in the back and laugh.
Never ever pour your soul to someone you’ve only known for a few days. Be private and discreet about important details such as your clients, travels, and the money you make. Jealousy and envy will only give you a very hard time. Plus, they’ll make you want to quit your job and lose faith in humanity.
Keep an eye out for stalkers
You’ve probably already thought that you’re completely safe from obsessed clients. You’re not, there are many crazy customers who at first act all nice, then show their true colors. They will steal an object from your house, they’ll follow you where you go, and the like.
Deal with exhaustion the right way
Every successful escort has had to work very long hours in the beginning. You can’t make a name for yourself if you only see a client one hour once or twice per week. When you’re a newbie, you need to prepare yourself for a really tiring and irregular schedule. It will wear you out not only physically but emotionally as well.
Which is why we recommend getting organized. How? Easy: create a bunch of rules and stick to them. For example, sleep eight hours, work six days per week and spend the seventh one with yourself, set a vitamin intake, eat healthy, don’t lose too many nights in clubs, and go for regular health checkups. Burnouts happen way more often than you think. Why should they happen to you?