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This is a guide that every escort should include in her website, so that they could help the first timers, the “virgins” of the escorting world, to know all there is to know about choosing, booking and dating a professional escort.

Being a novice in the world of sex workers can be a little overwhelming, as the offer is vast, various and a little bit confusing if you don’t know exactly what you are looking for.

So, having a step-by-step guide for first timers to read before starting the escort adventure is useful for both client and provider, because it brings clarity, it eliminates misunderstandings and miscommunication, and it facilitates the dating process.

1.        Where to look

The first and most important thing is to find a reliable source of information. And in the escort world, that translates into a reliable escort directory or an escort’s personal website.

There are plenty of escorts listed online, but not all websites are trustworthy. And that is why you should check for signs that gives you confidence that the website you’re on is a reliable one – it has contact information, it has an email address for support services, it needs you to create an account so that you can make the booking, it has a larger number of escort profiles and all photos look real, the escort descriptions seem genuine, not written with google translate or ChatGPT.

2.        What to look for

Now that you’ve found a good source – personal escort website or an escort directory, the next step is to take a moment to think about the things that are important for you in the escort you’re about to date.

You want her curvy or skinny? Porn star material or girlfriend material? You want her blonde, brunette or redhead? You want the “girl next door” experience or the dominatrix experience? You want her young or cougar/MILF?

After you’ve decided on a type, start searching for the escort that you want using the right key words, such as “mature”, “blonde”, “GFE”, “BBW”, so that you can narrow down the offer.

3.        What’s the budget

After you’ve figured out how you want your escort to look, next is setting the budget. A VIP escort with a super model look will always cost you more than a regular escort. Another difference is in terms of time – while a regular escort can offer 30-minute dates or 1h dates, a high-class escort normally starts the discussion from at least two hours up. And more time means more money, of course.

4.        Check the feedback

Booking an escort is just as important as making a purchase: you need to check the reviews first. So, take your time and go through the escort’s reviews to see how other clients felt after dating a particular lady. This way you may lower your expectations or have a more realistic approach of the time you’re about to spend together.

5.        How long will it last

When booking a date with an escort first, think of your expectations. If you want an extended date, that also includes drinks, a nice chat and some cuddling time afterwards, then book a longer session.

But if you are only interested in the intimate aspect of the date and this is the first time you’re meeting that escort, stay realistic about the time you’re about to spend together – book a shorter date, to see how it goes, and if you are satisfied you can set up a second date that can be longer.

6.        Get ready

Dating an escort should require from you the same amount of attention to your personal hygiene and appearance as a normal date. Make sure to be freshly shaved everywhere, take a shower, use a deodorant, apply some perfume, and dress nicely. This is your way as a man to show respect to the woman you’re about to meet. By respecting her you are also respecting yourself!

7.        Stay alert!

If this is the first time meeting an escort and you are going to her place, make sure to accept only if the location is not remote or in a dangerous part of town. If you see strange faces in her apartment, make sure to leave, and the same applies if you feel unsafe from the moment you step out of the car.