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Are you up for some light BDSM? Find Out About BDSM and the Submissive Service

1 comment 15 Feb 2016

Are you willing to try out all kind of sexual novelties in order to broaden you service list? 


Are you coquetting with the idea of adding light BDSM in your service offer? 


Here are some pointers on what light BDSM means, after that it’s your choice if this practice appeals to you or not.




First of all you have to understand the meaning of BDSM.


The letters stand for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.


BDSM it’s a term that includes a wide range of erotic activities, that can vary in intensity from:



light bondage – ties of the wrists and/or ankles, made of a soft fabric like silk, associated with foreplay and sexual teasing.  


erotic spanking – spanking a person for the sexual arousal of both parties. The spanking can involve the use of a hand, a paddle or a cane.


suspension bondage – a form of sexual bondage where the bound person is hung from a suspension point.


Shibari – in Japanese it means “to tie” and it describes an artistic form of rope bondage.


caning – a type of corporal punishment that consists in a number of hits with a cane, on the submissive bare buttocks or hands.

 

Get Your BDSM Accessories!

 

As a beginner escort in the art of soft BDSM you have to stock up with some BDSM accessories:


Whips – the purpose of this sex toy is to deliver a light stinging sensation and a naughty sound. It is not designed to produce extreme pain.


The whip is the first accessory that a dominant/submissive escort gets because of its meaning – the feeling of control and power that it offers.


Blindfolds – the purpose of the blindfolds is to take one sense away in order to heighten the rest. 


Another interesting fact is that while the men are aroused by what they see, women are aroused by what they feel.


Handcuffs – handcuffing someone forces its body to do…nothing. This leaves our body to fully enjoy the intensity of the sensations.


Ben Wa Balls – also known as Geisha Balls, the Ben Wa Balls have a dual efficiency: they give pleasure and help increase the strength of the pelvic floor muscles.

 

Submissive Escorts – Learn How to Be One!



 

Are you entering the light BDSM world as a submissive service provider? First of all learn what a submissive person is!


The submissive is the person that makes a conscious choice to give up some or all control of her life to another person, a dominant. That means that someone else can control your body and behavior within the preset limits.


What makes a good submissive is the intense desire to please a dominant person and to feel overpowered. Also the decision to be a submissive must be entirely your choice, don’t enter the game if you feel pressured into it.


As a light BDSM submissive include in your sex life some role playing in bed, some light spanking, light bondage and dirty talk.


The submissive is not a weak person and it is also not a passive one it’s just a person that wants to offer pleasure to her dominant, doing whatever the dominant desires, within the boundaries already agreed by both parties.


Are you a client that’s into soft BDSM? Here are some Do’s and Don’ts.


Things you have to do when booking a submissive escort:

 

Browse through the escort list of girls that offer submissive services and view all of the services that they offer.


Think if the escorts list of services will satisfy your sexual needs and look if she fulfills your fetishes.


Read and accept her list of rules and limits.


Discuss about a safe word and accept to stop at the moment when the escort gives you the safe word.


Things you can’t do when booking a submissive escort:


Don’t drink or do drugs before the date with the submissive escort.


Respect her list of services and the safe word and do not cross the line by doing something she doesn’t want.


Always wear condoms while doing anything sexual.

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Gabriel escort bisexuel à Mar: 1 March 2016, 19:36

Hello I am a man occasional escort (I started) I have always been attracted to BDSM but I practice only 3 years with a female escort and even from the beginning I knew I could because my body told him complicity has quickly developed between us, some practices such as bondageont been slow to happen. You should know that whatever practice you have to have confidence in itself. We imagine that this is just simple but I find that BDSM is a good way to learn about or even but we must get to know his own limitations that can be dominant or submissive. Because the risk is wanting exceeded its limits. Whatever side of the handle or you are. As a subject with a dominatrix I went away including the extreme, and the cerebral side without sex and funnier than sex. I started for 1 year as a man in the dominance of men without sexual intercourse, although at first I did not pay because I began as dominant and although I had submitted men who were starting submission with a man, I quickly managed to put them at ease, reassured them, I had submitted that sought only the cerebral side achieve pleasure in pain, some without humiliation, others . This confirmed my desire to launched into male domination tariffied and preferably with straight because it does not seek to have sex in domination. In all cases whether women or men, subject or subject, "Master" or "Mistress" do nothing with obligations. There must be mutual desire, you have that pleasure is mutual. If either do not take pleasure from the meeting will not be interesting especially in tariffied sessions, regardless of their duration. I have often heard of the dominant and domineering CLAMES their subject (s), "You have to deserve your Master, your Mistress! "But the reverse is also true. If there is no harmony in a tariffied same session there will be no pleasure. As for the hardware to start not need a lot of accessories, the basic ones are enough to then begin with imagination, one always finds in its environment objects that can be used, for sure it will be that much less chic 'with top equipment game but the fun will be the same though with simple materials, ugly pulling as much satisfaction with the hardware and expensive furniture. There in fetish outfits I find the cheapest price is justified because there is the quality that is important and then to those who attend special evenings you better. But everyone is not fond of parties or whether other fetishists. Personally I prefer small genus committee 4-5 I find it more fun and nobody is trying to impress each other at least. When the accessories I have the minimum, whip, whips, whips, belts, candles, clamps etc .. for pain. Some rope, cellophane rolls to bondage. And as submitted I have always taken my pleasure and since I do domination as well as partners that I had. So if you're new and whatever your role be on the costs of your partner. Finally I would say that it quickly becomes addicted to this BDSM with or without sex relationships! PS : Sorry for my bad English Should I be punished?
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