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Making a name for yourself in the escorting business can be tricky, especially on a market so volatile, prone to changes and tightly linked to economical changes and client’s personal whims, as the escort industry.

So, if you are a new escort trying to make a name for yourself, or you are a professional escort that wants to stand out from the crowd and increase her clientele and her income, this is for you: a small guide on how to grow your escort business from scratch.

First things first: plan ahead!

All good things happen according to a plan. You can’t just wing it and hope money will come your way. Sure, money will come, but not the amount you wish for and not offered by the clients you deserve or want to have in your life.

The plan consists of:

1.      Having some funds to rely on.

2.      Finding the location that will work for you.

3.      Advertising your service.

When you start to treat your escort activity as a business, you also need to think like a businessman.

1.      Funds – “you need to spend money to make money”, so make sure that you venture in this with some money set aside.

Why do I need money for? The answer is simple: for creating a website, for advertising yourself, as a safety net for the weeks/months when you don’t earn so much, for professional photos, for good quality lingerie.

2.      Location – Is the town you live in, ok for working as an escort? Is the place you are staying ok for doing incalls? These are the questions to ask yourself first before starting to advertise your escort services.

If the town you live in is too small, that may come as a problem because people tend to be more conservative in small town and have privacy issues.

Also, if the place you are staying is in the outskirts of town, far from the easy-to-reach city center, or in a location full of families with kids, this may be a long-term problem.

3.      Advertising – You need to make your services known to potential clients, and for that you need to have your own personal website, a profile created on escort directories, and banners to promote your service.

Now that you are in a bigger town, with business and leisure tourists, living in a place that is well connected to the city center, pubs, cafes, and other places of interest, you have your own website and a budget to use for advertising yourself, here are other things to consider, that will help you grow from zero to escort hero!

Dress for the occasion and never be late.

If you want to attract the wealthy type of clientele you need to look your part, and we are not speaking about designer clothes here, but about looking elegant and respecting the dress code for the place and hour of the day you are in.

Dress classy, not too short, not too revealing, so that when you meet your client and go at a bar, a restaurant, or a coffee shop, you won’t attract undesired attention from the people around you, making your date feel uncomfortable.

Wear light makeup, without huge fake nails, bright colors, sparkle, or big, Russian eyelashes. Less is always better when we want to look classy: less foundation, an elegant hairdo, elegant heels, and outfits.

Being on time and not making your client wait for you is another memorable and important thing for clients. So, plan your day in advance so you have plenty of time to get ready for every date. Also, do not watch the clock and make your client feel rushed.

Learn to listen.

It may seem surprising, but the reality is that clients are looking for human connection more than they are looking for orgasms. If you learn to offer them your full attention, to listen to them, really hear what they are saying, being emphatic, being caring without making them feel judged or interrogated, your date will leave your presence just as ecstatic, if not even more ecstatic than after a multiple orgasm session.

Payment always first.

You must always be paid for your services in advance. In escorting the payments are always done up front, as a reassurance. This way you can focus on pleasing your date without being worried that in the end he may refuse to pay.

Health is of top priority.

As a professional escort make sure to always use protection – condoms, during your intimate moments with your dates. Also, it is advised to visit the specialist for a general check-up at least 3 times per year, to do some blood tests and swab tests.

Respect your boundaries.

Think of all the things that you are ok with doing and the things that are making you uncomfortable and stick to them. Be firm when stating your limits and don’t be afraid to walk out of a date if the client is being disrespectful or tries to negotiate your own limits, fees, or services.

Build a support network.

For your mental health it is important to have a small group of escorts with whom you can talk to, exchange stories, ask for advice or for emotional support. A fellow escort’s support is more valuable when you are talking about things escort related, because she knows the context and can provide better advice.