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Working as an escort involves a lot of self-PR and self-marketing. That means that you have to market yourself so that your image becomes appealing to the potential clients.

You have to take care to always look fresh and beautiful, to have an up to date photo portfolio and to make your list of services as visible as possible.

What kind of sexual delights are you offering, how open-minded are you, how much are you willing to try sexually…are you offering a real girlfriend experience or are you apt for offering a pornstar experience?

Be Honest and Know the Meaning of Every Sexual Service You Provide

Being honest to yourself and to your clients it’s very important in this line of work. Because if you over sell your services to a client, he will be fooled now, but he will not book you next time. And you can’t afford to lose a potential long-time client, a constant source of income, for a date where you can make some easy money but with the cost of losing the trust of the client.

So, learn what each sexual service really means and implies and think hard if you are really up for it. Don’t say, for example, you give and receive golden shower if you don’t feel comfortable with the idea. The services are listed for a reason…to help you match with a partner that fits your sexual preferences and helps you stay in the comfort zone that you have created for yourself.

Don’t say you are up for all kind of sexual services just because it looks good in your escort profile! Because your client will figure it out and you’ll look like you are trying to trick him.

One of the most common services that appear in an escort list are: girlfriend experience and pornstar experience.

But do you really know what those two really imply?

Girlfriend Experience vs. Pornstar Experience

What is the Girlfriend Experience?

The girlfriend experience is when the escort offers the client an experience where she plays the role of a loving girlfriend. The date with an escort ready to offer you a dream girlfriend experience is full of passion and sweet love making. It is more than just sex, it’s a real date with an attentive, fun and lovely escort, that can go on just like a regular date, but with a steamy sex session in the end.

The client that is longing for a girlfriend experience can turn the meeting into a real date, including dinner and a movie, just to feel like he is with an interesting woman that he has just meet and tries to impress and allure into bed.

In order for you to offer a real girlfriend experience you must be a very fun, considerate and loving escort, that can make good conversation and is available for kisses, cuddling and sweet love.

If you are offering the girlfriend experience you must keep in mind that for a genuine experience the client can book you for a full night or for a sleep over, so that you can have enough time to get to know each other.

When a client is booking you for a girlfriend experience, he expects from you to offer him more than just hot sex. He wants to spend time with you, in order to get to know you and to build chemistry first. He likes to take things slowly and to help build the sexual tension.

What is the Pornstar Experience?

The Pornstar Experience implies that you are a sex expert, very open-minded and willing to experience new sexual kinks. Just like its name, this service implies that you are up for porn style sex and for wild sexual encounters – from anal, to gang bang, light bondage and BDSM, lesbian shows, deep throat and other services from this range.

If you are offering among other services the pornstar experience, you need to know that it is usually a booking that can take a couple of hours and it can be very exhausting.

When a client is booking you for a pornstar experience he is expecting to enjoy an ultimate sexual encounter, spiced up with some weird kinks and fetishes. This client is looking for pure sex, not sensual kind of love that involves foreplay and time spent together. It is the kind of encounter booked by those who have different fantasies and sexual needs and are looking for an experimented escort to fulfill them.

Be honest in your description and list of services, because is better to offer a good quality short list of sexual services than a large list with services that you don’t really do or enjoy doing.