If you’ve
seen a porn video lately, or you have played in one J, then you must be familiar with the
way the porn actresses are doing blowjobs! All we can say is that a blowjob in
a porno is anything but sensual. It is loud, plenty of fluids are involved, it
is full of gagging, deep throating and it happens on fast forward motion.
So ladies,
if you are thinking of getting some inspiration from porn in order to improve
your blowjob technique, you’d better rethink that because most of the things
done by porn actresses are just for show and because they look good on the
camera!
Oral Sex in Porn Vs. Oral Sex in the
Real Life
That’s why darlings, we’ve come up with the following list of things you shouldn’t necessarily be doing while giving head to your clients.
1. Stop moving so fast. This is not a race!
Did you know
that men actually prefer their blowjob to be slow and full of attention to
details? Yes, that’s right, so stop mimicking the porn stars by sucking on it
like there’s no tomorrow.
A slow
blowjob allows the blood to flow to the genitals and helps by creating tension
in the pelvic area and throughout the body. The slower and sensual the blowjobs
its done, the more intense the pleasure is.
So ladies, keep it slow and tantalizing and you will offer him the time of his life!
2. Tongue slapping... why do that?
Have you
seen those porn actresses that look possessed while they suck cock? The way
they do it and the moves they are using? The tongue slapping is one of those
crazy moves that have 0 erotic value!
Slapping
your tongue with his dick will not increase his erection or the level of
pleasure that he is experiencing. It is also not arousing for the girl either.
It has zero value from an artistic point of view and zero value when it comes
to increasing the depth of the orgasm.
It is just for show, just to make the blowjob more entertaining for the viewers back home, because a repetitive movement (like the one done while sucking cock) it is considered to be boring for the ones watching the video.
3. Cheek fucking
You must have seen this move in porn, the way the girl takes the guys cock and push it against her cheek. Well ladies, guess what, this is not an erotic move or one designed to make the guy feel like he’s in the ninth heaven. It is useless and it is all for show. Yes, it may suggest the man that his penis is so big that it has reached an end, a wall, but this is just bullshit. It is a fun thing to do when you need a break or your jaws are hurting and you are looking for ways of making the blowjob more comfortable for your mouth.
4. Dick spitting
Spitting on the dick is a big thing nowadays in porn. We all see how porn actresses are producing huge amounts of saliva in order to spit on the dude’s penis. Well, this is a thing that can be appealing for some guys, while for others it could be simply disgusting.
You don’t spit on it for the artistic effect, you spit on it when you need extra lubrication and you don’t have lube available. So, stop copying those hot actresses you see on porn movies and don’t over spit on the penis! A little saliva is ok, but don’t turn it into a spitting contest on the guy’s dick!
5. Sucking in weird positions
When you see a porn video and you see how the girl is being put in all kind of crazy positions, you might be tempted to think that what you see are some new Kama Sutra sex poses that you definitel
What it’s more important? A good cock sucking technique done by a sexy and confident woman, or a poorly performed blowjob, done in a crazy pose by a woman that tries to impersonate a porn star? Yeah, you got it right ladies. Focus on the technique, enjoy yourself, pay attention to his reactions and needs and you will get way better results rather than opting for crazy moves and poses.y must try. Well, in porn this is not always the case. The crazy poses that the actresses have, are due to the filming angles that the producers must obtain for the movie!
So, next time you see a woman giving an amazing blowjob while she is on high
heels, bent in a freakish position, think twice before trying to recreate it,
because that woman is sucking dick in that pose for two reasons: for the
artistic effect and so that the camera might get a good angle for filming.
6. Duck facing the dick
Yeah, you’ve
heard it right! Duck facing the dick means sucking dick while having a
duckface. It is just hilarious and not sexy at all and unless you have
beautiful, natural, full lips, there is no reason why you should make a duck
face while having your client’s penis between your lips! Be natural, be
confident in yourself and you will see that this is what really matters when
giving a successful head!
So, our advice
is to stop trying to impress the client with all kind of porn star moves, that
look fake and have zero value for the quality of the blowjob.
Instead, you
could focus on the penis and the balls, you could try to find a way to suck on
the head while you caress the balls and so on, things that really matter for
your partner.
You can
obtain the artistic effect through sexy lingerie, a little moaning from time to
time and some eye contact now and then. It will work wonders on him, we assure
you of that!