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Escorting may seem glamorous and easy when looking from the outside, but in fact it is a really tough environment, filled with stress, long hours and lack of sleep and personal life.

You may say that money make it worth it but it can also prone you to all kind of mistakes.

1.     Stay healthy, eat well and don’t overbook yourself

As a newbie escort you may be tempted to overdo it, to exhaust yourself by booking date after date in order to make a name for yourself and a reputation in the escorting world.

While this is a good thing for a new comer, it may also threaten your health, because of the way you act in your downtime. We are talking about the lack of exercise, the amount of junk food ingested and the lack of properly cooked meals.

Even if you are tempted to be permanently by the phone or online trying to figure out ways of attracting new clients, try to respect a routine – incorporate a daily exercise program in your life, try to go out and get a healthy meal, or buy something and prepare it by yourself. Also don’t forget to sleep, because your vitality and fresh looks are two very important assets.

If, on the contrary, you are an “old timer” – an experienced escort with a successful career and a steady clientele, be careful not to overwhelm yourself with a crazy number of dates on a daily basis.

Think of it: do you want to offer better service to less clients or a poor service to a bigger number of clients?

And keep in mind the fact that a satisfied client turns into a regular, and a regular means a constant and relatively constant money provider. Also, by making different types of appointments you get to vary your activity and avoid boredom – combine a long date with two short ones, schedule a break and start again with another round of dates.

It’s like this: with a regular that can book you for more than one hour you get to work less and make more money because when you have more time to prepare yourself for a date, you tend to offer a better service and a better service implies higher rates.

2.     Spice things up

The most important thing as an escort is your charm, your personality, your playful and joyful nature. So do not fall into a routine with your clients and always be open to novelties and try to spice things up.

When you feel you have a routine going on (meet, talk, have sex) try to shake things up, because a client will come and visit you two or three times and after that he will get bored and you’ll lose a potential regular.

Stay fresh and open minded and always think of ways to entertain yourself and your dates. Because if you are full of energy and in a good mood the client will feel it and will react accordingly, but if he feels that you are doing things into a robotic manner, he will not visit you again.

Try new sexy outfits, new lingerie sets, buy candles and prepare a different playlist for each day of the week, learn a new striptease routine, try out new massage oils and techniques and bring yourself up to date with erotic kinks and novelties.

You can also try to spice things up a little by making your client step out of his comfort zone. Tease him into new erotic delights and amaze him by creating an additional special place at your incall, a bedroom designed for kinkier pleasures and secret fantasies and fetishes, a separate place from your regular rendezvous one.

Never take your regulars for granted!

Always keep in touch with them, send them naughty pictures if they agree with that, offer them a “quickie discount” – the opportunity to see you for 30 minutes after work or during the lunch break for a quickie at a special price, buy that lingerie that he likes and tease him about it and many other ticks of the trade that you must try in order not to lose a regular.

3.     Don’t forget to constantly promote your business

Even if you find yourself in a good situation, when the phone is constantly ringing and there aren’t enough hours in a day to set up all of your dates, good marketing never stops.

Try not to be repetitive with the adds – do not place the same add over and over again. Be creative, make special offers, find new places to show the add and constantly improve your online profile.

Try to keep in touch with your clients by posting new photos of yourself and by announcing them about your special offers that you are planning.

Be creative and do not let yourself be fooled by the fame of the moment. Anything that isn’t constantly sustained presents the risk of collapsing, and you don’t want that for your business.

  4.     Do not let yourself fall into the mirage of easy money

Keep in mind that escorting is a business and you are actually a business person. So keep track of your money, invest them into your image and into your location, clothes, photos and lingerie and the rest try not to waste on endless shopping trips or other insignificant activities.

Those are the money hardly earned, the money that you could use to consolidate your future.

  5.     Create for yourself a different world besides escorting

Do not forget that you are more than just an escort. You are a person with passions and a life besides the escorting industry. So try to invest into that person!

Do not isolate yourself by dedicating completely to escorting. Instead, try to find activities that you enjoy doing – go to a cooking class, go and take dance lessons, try a new type of exercise at the gym, plan a vacation and create a parallel world for yourself, a world in which you do the things that you enjoy most.

Try to avoid these common mistakes, keep yourself healthy and happy and try to incorporate in your life activities different from escorting, things that represent you and make you feel relaxed and satisfied.

Also never forget to treat your activity as a business and to manage your finances accordingly!