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Our tone and our words can have a huge impact on how the person we are addressing to, responds to our message. That’s why dear escorts it’s very, very important to choose your words carefully and try to be as positive as you can be in your website texts.

Stop being hostile and confrontational!

Try to pay extra attention to your “About Me”, “Services” and “Rules” texts if you want your clients to react in a positive manner and turn into regulars. If you feel you can’t write the text yourself, contact our support team and let us do the writing for you!

Why it’s so important to have good, positive texts on your website? Because by using a positive language we tend to reduce conflict and defensiveness and improve the communication.

Keep in mind that, when you discuss with a client, face to face or in writing, it is easier for him to hear the word yes than to hear the word no, so stay positive and set a good tone for the future conversation. Always think of the way your text will make your client feel, because you don’t want to turn him away or make him angry or disappointed!

Negative vs. Positive

While the positive phrasing and language tells the recipient what can be done, what alternatives and choices are available and it makes everything sound helpful and encouraging, the negative phrasing has the exact opposite effect: tells the recipient what can’t be done and it implies blame.

Eliminate the negative phrases and replace them with more positive words!

For example, at the “Rules” section, stop using words like: “can’t”, “won’t”, “unable to”, “no”, “stop”, “under no circumstances” and so on. Instead, try reformulating things so that you won’t drive all your potential clients away or leave them with a bad impression.

Try thinking as one of your clients! You enter an escort website in order to have some fun, relax, unwind, forget about stress and fulfil some of your erotic fantasies. In exchange for all that you are willing to financially reward the lady for all the experiences offered.

What happens when you enter the escorts website and you are greeted by an unfriendly message, with a negative connotation and a harsh tone? You will hurry to leave that site because it doesn’t meet your needs and desires.

We know you have a set of rules and you are sick and tired of having to repeat them to all of your clients but try not to be extremely harsh, abusive and rude. The client is on your website looking for a time out, a break from his daily life and all the nagging that awaits him back home, so try not to offer him the same negative experience that he is trying to run away from.

Be sweet, excited, use an enticing tone, make them curious and wanting for more. Use the words in your advantage, to make you potential clients horny and eager to book you for a date!

That doesn’t mean you can’t be firm when it comes to the things you don’t do or accept from your client. But choose your words wisely, so that your client can understand your point of view without feeling abused, criticised or lectured by you.