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There’s no doubt about it, escorting is a very attractive job. Independent companions can be their own bosses and make quite a nice sum of money, while agencies take advantage of one of the largest markets worldwide. There’s everything to love about it. The only problem is that it is very close as a job to prostitution, which is illegal or has a limited legality in many countries.

We can all get a little high and mighty sometimes and argue here and there that this kind of services are far from prostitution, but you can’t stand on that high horse while mentioning your rates for Greek and CIM on your website. In today’s day and age it doesn’t matter if you use special terms, particularly when it’s clear what you’re selling. A judge or jury isn’t going to be fooled easily. So get off your soapbox and be prepared.

First of all, are you doing all you can to stay legal? It’s important that you know the laws in your country. Get the facts down, then consult with an attorney in order to know all necessary details. Be prepared to shut down your website whenever confronted with any possible legal issues. Lastly, get a license that can justify some of your escorting services. We wrote about handy licenses to get as an escort in a previous post. Masseuse and sex therapist are some of the easiest to get because you can always find a class somewhere that can prepare you for these positions. Exotic dancer can also be a great option if you prefer catering to stag parties or larger groups at once.

Leaving that aside, it’s time to delve into terminology and everything you need to know in order to write a disclaimer.

1. Use only special terms and abbreviations. Yes, this won’t necessarily save you in court, but it can’t be worse that putting sex directly on the table.

2. Try to keep the sex talk to a minimum. Whether through e-mail, telephone, skype or whatever medium, avoid using no direct sexual mentions and as few special terms as possible. Make sure that your responses can always be interpreted in an innocent fashion.

3. Make the client understand that your payment is a donation. Have them put the money in an envelope and place it when they come in on a table or nightstand.

4. Have the client sign a disclaimer. This will be particularly helpful if you have one of those licenses we mentioned above. Your disclaimer shouldn’t be lengthy or complicated. It just needs to make a clear difference between your services. It could look something like this: “Payment is strictly for my time and companionship. Anything that happens outside of this is simply an act between two consenting adults.” Don’t mention sex in any way.

It’s important that you understand that all these tactics aren’t sure-fire ways to staying out of legal trouble, but they are tactics that could save you in front of a jury. It’s best to do everything in your power to stay safe.