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5 Tips On How To Make It Big In The Escorting World

10 comments 27 Nov 2019



The thought of making it big in an industry as glamorous as escorting is a magnet to escort newbies. You’ve all been there, dear escorts, am I right? Becoming a popular adult entertainer was your number one priority and you worked very hard to get to where you are now. But you’ve also had many bumps along the way, e.g. a lot of temptations which made life hard for a while. Alas, they made you the strong and successful companion you are, didn’t they?

Today’s article is dedicated to all of you who want to make their first sail into the escorting world as smooth as possible. So, buckle up and read our five tips on how to avoid many unnecessary problems along the way.

Use your money wisely

It’s sooo easy to give in to temptation when you start to earn, say, double the amount of money you made when you worked a much less attractive job. You will go to all those luxury shops you’ve been fantasizing about for so long and buy everything that catches your eye. You will want to eat at fancy restaurant or visit the most exclusive resorts abroad.

That’s completely fine. Pamper yourself now and then, it’s good for the brain. However, don’t do it every day or you will run out of money in a very short time. The most important thing to do is to be responsible. Also, ask yourself this question: “will I be an escort all my life?” If the answer is no, you better start saving money right after reading this post. It’s something will help you during those rainy days which are bound to happen to all of us. Alternatively, set yourself a goal, like, for instance, opening a business when you’re done escorting.

Stay true to yourself

Admit it, many of you end up forgetting who you are and becoming this completely different person than you once were. That’s because you have to play a different role for each date. Facing an identity crisis is a real problem.

What you can do to avoid this is to dedicate your free time to activities you love. Play with your pet if you have one, go out with your friends and watch a movie, go hiking, read a book, and everything else you like.

Don’t lose touch with your true self and everything will be ok, you’ll see 😊

Watch out for fake friends

A true friend is hard to find these days, especially in your line of work. Gossipy, mean, and double-faced people will put on their best show to lure you in and pretend to be there for you when you need them the most. Sadly, most often than not they will stab you in the back and laugh.

Never ever pour your soul to someone you’ve only known for a few days. Be private and discreet about important details such as your clients, travels, and the money you make. Jealousy and envy will only give you a very hard time. Plus, they’ll make you want to quit your job and lose faith in humanity.

Keep an eye out for stalkers

You’ve probably already thought that you’re completely safe from obsessed clients. You’re not, there are many crazy customers who at first act all nice, then show their true colors. They will steal an object from your house, they’ll follow you where you go, and the like.

For ways to stay ahead of creeps and stalkers, head over to part one and part two of one of our previous posts and read them carefully.

Deal with exhaustion the right way

Every successful escort has had to work very long hours in the beginning. You can’t make a name for yourself if you only see a client one hour once or twice per week. When you’re a newbie, you need to prepare yourself for a really tiring and irregular schedule. It will wear you out not only physically but emotionally as well.

Which is why we recommend getting organized. How? Easy: create a bunch of rules and stick to them. For example, sleep eight hours, work six days per week and spend the seventh one with yourself, set a vitamin intake, eat healthy, don’t lose too many nights in clubs, and go for regular health checkups. Burnouts happen way more often than you think. Why should they happen to you?

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Chloé: 30 November 2019, 21:22

Thanks for the tips but please keep 'em coming. We tend to forget these ways of life as we sometimes get wrapped-up the moment or moments, even if they are slightly unrealistic. Thank you Escortbook for caring; It truly does make a difference.
sensualgia: 1 December 2019, 19:20

I agree with everything listed above, from getting the proper nutrition and sleep to scheduled and set days off , and the most important in my book would be the setting of goals for yourself,and starting to save your money, ultimately planning for that business your going to have when you retire from Escorting !
Lola: 2 December 2019, 10:52

Sincèrement ce conseil est vraiment claire et vrai. Un certains moment les amies hihihi plutôt l ennemi plutôt faite vraiment attention à eu qui peut vous emmener d autre problème. Et aussi un homme qui vous aides ATTENTION on est pas dans le monde des bisounourses les filles autour de sa y a des gros mafias et j en parle avec connaissances de cause. Sa fait des péages autour de vous . Et sa provient des gens que vous coutoyer l amie ou les etc... Je confirme tout dans les conseils de se site . Merci infiniment mais moi je l ai payer à ma personne. Je suis battante et j ai remarqué prix être tard mais j ai appris donc la s est finie qu' on me tourne autour et faire confiance
Jessie Denver: 3 December 2019, 01:13

Absolutely agree! I wish someone told me a long time ago to not only save my money but also to INVEST - I would definitely still be retired right now. Instead, I'm back to seeing clients after 6 years being retired. INVEST, INVEST, INVEST! Stocks, real estate, your own business, and most importantly invest in yourself thru education. Because trust me, burn out is a real thing and you won't want to be in this business for long. To prevent burnout, I had to learn to say NO sometimes to clients... the money is great seeing lots of clients everyday but it does take a toll. Now I see clients only 2 or 3 days per week - the rest of the week is 'me' time and having another life. I even turn my phone off and don't answer messages... I've found this to be so much less stressful and I'm overall just happier AND healthier. Great article and some tips I wish I knew many years ago.
reshawnrobinson1971: 3 December 2019, 03:42

Thank you for the advice.because everything you mentioned.i was going thru it.i have a question?why whwn men call you from the site some of them like to play games and over you a amount of money that they want to give you.what do you do to avoid that?
karlieStar: 10 December 2019, 16:49

Hello I've been n escort for close to 3 yrs. At first I had a manager n I didn't mind not working my phone can b frustrating. But I also paid close attention to how it was done. So I then ventured off as independent. I was in demand just bout everyday lol. N I was ok with that because I'm not in a relationship nor do I want one I just don't think it works in this line of business. Just recently I made a bad decision I was to go to one town city but I went to another and I lost money I did not come up and I have a lot of responsibilities and I do save my money within the last 3 years I know I've made a lot of thousands of dollars 3 weeks I made 10000 and I wasn't saving after that last year I was saving I save $8,000 in 6 months well almost 9 that was just what I saved my bills and everything were paid for it so I made more than that because I spent a lot and the summer I made a decision to lower my rates because I was in a very very tight spot and which now I look back at it I shouldn't have done so I'm slowly getting back to where I was at but since this past summer my business has not been what it was and just these last few months my business has not been what it was I have regulars yes and I can maintain my bills but I need more I want more I want to buy a house I have children I want my own business. And I'm just in a frump right now. I lost my license so I don't drive at the moment I do Uber so without calls the gentleman and this area or if it's leather it might be $100 to and from plus the donation and most of them are not willing to pay that so with me not having a vehicle takes away a lot of out calls that I'm at one point I was able to do I just am at a loss maybe I just need a break but any advice could help
lyekkasix: 22 December 2019, 21:47

very logical advice. it seems to come from a genuine place & from a person who has had a large range of experiences & really does want to help others. it is appreciated. thanks.
Sexyanniexoxo101: 14 January 2020, 04:16

Thanks so much for the tips and they really truly appreciated. Thank you.
Milan Bvlgari: 30 January 2020, 15:15

I love everything about this article! I’ve taken over a year off , working as a bartender and playing poker. (I will become pro);) ..I really missed my clients. Gym, doing fun things with family.. I can be perfectly content by myself as well. It’s definitely okay to push the reset button.
Caramel Kash: 23 February 2020, 11:24

I appreciate the great advice and definitely agree with a set schedule and rest being healthy matters expect to be professional.
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